Unlike with men, when I see fashion I like, I won’t go all the way on the first date. I like to look, feel it against my skin, and see if I’m still in lust the day after tomorrow. As I was leaving a Hollywood boutique, I stopped for Bodhi’s envelope clutch (tagged around $500). The leather was baby soft, the patent part sticky, the piping polished it perfect. I told the saleslady I’d think about it. I have. Shop Bodhi at Lord & Taylor, or call 212-888-6288 for the retailer closest to you.