Yes, an all over fur jacket is over the top but that’s what makes it so fun. And isn’t that what’s appealing to your girl? They haven’t learned the finer points of subtlety and if you ask me, they don’t have to yet. They will have many years down the road to learn restraint. Or if you’re like me and wish I didn’t have restraint, then you get this for your daughter =) The ribbon sash tie really makes this dramatic and fit for a true diva. Just make sure their attitudes don’t match. Surprisingly affordable, which makes it easy to justify, at Evertyhing But the Princess for $76.